If dreamed you that you appoint a meeting at any monument, then in reality you are not sure of correctness of the choice and you hope that soon there will be any event (or you will provoke it), which will sort things out. If in a dream you see how the monument comes to life, then in real life your coldness can become the parting reason from your beloved. To be present at opening of a monument means that you will become the witness of any significant event.
Be sure and keep any other thoughts out of your mind before drifting to sleep as a cluttered mind can decrease the chances that you will remember your dreams upon waking. Also, focusing on remembering your dreams upon waking in the morning is another very important thing. This sounds very easy, but is often hard for some to do. Interpret a dream by "dictionary dream of interpretation"
When you very first wake up, simply think about your dreams. Don't allow your mind to drift off to other things, just lay there and think about the things you dreamt about the night before - dictionary dream meaning.